| | Re: I want to be happy. Should I be?
Update: We got into a "discussion" again on the night before last. He laid everything out for me. He's started to grasp the idea of breaking up and is starting to get excited about the possible single future, although still disappointed and not looking forward to the hard parts (like finding roommates).
So there we were, ready to break up. We talked about how to split the finances, etc etc. We talked about being rational about it. THEN I CHICKENED OUT! We went to see MY counselor later in the day, and she got him hopeful again that we could work it out.
Why can't I just let go??? Ugh!
I'll respond more later. Just thought you guys deserved an update.