lostcherub

Thank you every1 for your replies, swedish I found out because someone had been hacking into our accounts and I had managed to find a way to record things on our laptop. By doing this though it meant I got to read every sordid detail of what they said to one another including things we would have said together. For that reason I can't get it out of my head and I replay it over and over which I know is not good but I don't know how to stop or see when it will get easier? It seems like forever now but it has not even been a fortnight. There are so many htoughts going on in my head and I don't know how to unravel them or how to try and rest from them nothing seems to stop me thinking about it, but how can I start to move forward or try to repair my marriage if I can't forget about it?

Thanks to draconis I idn't know there was a site for emotional affairs it may help to make him realise I'm not being over sensitive?