Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Should I be happy or is she just trying to be nice

Zulu · 02-07-2011, 05:29 AM

OK, so bit of an update, Nine months now.... Also, the house is now under offer, well it is already accpted, so pretty much has been sold. So things will move along from here now, we are not divorced yet, so we will just split the cash and suppose she will use it to file for divorce. I said, If you want a divorce, you do it...

As far as the dating is concerned, Oh my goodness, I think Quantum Physics will be a doddle compared to dating.... the people are complicated. Go out and meet, almost the first thing they talk about is sex, ok, so just to let you know, I do not have sex on a first date...(what they say)... um ok, that is fine, I don't think I remember asking for it, but well, now you have told me,,, good grief, these 40 something women in South Africa have serious hangups about sex.... They first want to be friends and then see where it goes... red flag red flag red flag that is cool, then be friends first, but don't tell me that...

My opinion is, ok, so now you have told me, why did you think it needed to be said, before I have even made a move on you, you are very presumptious to think that I was even thinking about sleeping with you... or is it a case of "me thinks the lady doth protest tooo much"

02-07-2011, 05:29 AM	#47 (permalink)
Zulu Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Cape Town Posts: 121	Re: Should I be happy or is she just trying to be nice OK, so bit of an update, Nine months now.... Also, the house is now under offer, well it is already accpted, so pretty much has been sold. So things will move along from here now, we are not divorced yet, so we will just split the cash and suppose she will use it to file for divorce. I said, If you want a divorce, you do it... As far as the dating is concerned, Oh my goodness, I think Quantum Physics will be a doddle compared to dating.... the people are complicated. Go out and meet, almost the first thing they talk about is sex, ok, so just to let you know, I do not have sex on a first date...(what they say)... um ok, that is fine, I don't think I remember asking for it, but well, now you have told me,,, good grief, these 40 something women in South Africa have serious hangups about sex.... They first want to be friends and then see where it goes... red flag red flag red flag that is cool, then be friends first, but don't tell me that... My opinion is, ok, so now you have told me, why did you think it needed to be said, before I have even made a move on you, you are very presumptious to think that I was even thinking about sleeping with you... or is it a case of "me thinks the lady doth protest tooo much"