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Old 02-07-2011, 04:36 PM   #24 (permalink)
Conrad
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Default Re: I was warned about this "male version of a fitness test" has reared its head.

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Originally Posted by credamdóchasgra View Post
Uh-oh.
I did not realize the connection between that affirmation and being unattractive.
That is not a coincidence.

Thank you, your wife, and the kids for the example (ok, thank those poor sidelong suitors too). It helps me see how I'm "giving in order to get."

I do have the fear that I'll never "get" what I need. But apparently that fear will get in the way, so here's to the next step--overcoming that fear.
You simply MUST deal with that fear.

There are a number of ways it can subside, and it will likely be a combination of several.

That's where the parts work can be really helpful. In your case, I think it's essential - as you simply aren't going to rest until you really "know" what to do.
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