 Re: I was warned about this "male version of a fitness test" has reared its head.
Well, for an update...
H came home from work and announced, angrily, that he thinks we need to cut down our MC frequency because it's "not doing any good" and is "too expensive."
Awesome.
My worst fears confirmed: this crappy status quo is acceptable to him, and he is unwilling to become curious in a way that is clearly necessary, about how he contributes, what HIS parts are, and what HE can do.
Until now, i was counting my blessings that i hadn't heard the "I don't need someone telling me" line from him, I was comforted that he *didn't* seem to "think he has all the answers."
Now I really feel ALL the weight on MY shoulders.
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