Originally Posted by MarriedWifeInLove

Do you view PORN as cheating?

If you do, what types of porn? Use to, 3-4 yrs ago. Movies, webpages.

Pictures, videos? Both

Live sex web cams, live sex chats?No, never

Sexual-type websites (hook-ups, lonelywives, etc.)? Nope

Or is ALL of the above perfectly acceptable and a normal part of a man's life? Or womans? Depends on relationship I think if acceptable

If your MAN is viewing porn, do you know about it? Yes, but not because he tells meHow do you know about it?

Did you find out about it on your own or did he tell you?

Do you view porn yourself? Have in past

Do you view porn together? 3-4yrs ago

Are you threatened by his use of porn? Yes. Since I feel loss of self worth, major self esteem, even though he tells me I'm still beautiful 15lbs heavier and I refuse to get naked and I have no sex drive for him at all, I still get more self conscious of my body when I seen what his friends send him via emails. They are tasteful and gorgeous women that I'd love to have that confidence. I understand he may need the visual since I dont' give him his physical need. But this was going on even before I had my own personal issues.

Is your sex life suffering or is it normal? Yes. But not due to porn issues. Many other factors. Ones that I've lost all desire to work on. Now, I will 'give' H sex and strictly sex maybe 1x every two weeks. Actually, I've noticed it happens when my dirve is up before menstral week. But, there's no passion, desire, drive. He knows it. Can sense and feel it from me, yet still takes it from me. It saddens me to know he's okay with that, and that I will do that. But many other things are issues besides sex for me, us. I guess I've resorted to 'playing the part' to keep those around me happy/comfortable.

Let's discuss.