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Old 02-08-2011, 10:11 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: Porn--Trying to Understand--Why Is It a Threat?

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Originally Posted by MarriedWifeInLove View Post
Do you view PORN as cheating?
No. I DO view deceit as cheating.
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If you do, what types of porn?

Pictures, videos?

Live sex web cams, live sex chats?
In my opinion, there is a difference between inanimate viewing and live action, in real time interpersonal interaction. The former is porn. The latter is... something else. Not sure what.

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Sexual-type websites (hook-ups, lonelywives, etc.)?
That is not porn. That is looking to swing, cheat, something. But it isn't porn.
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Or is ALL of the above perfectly acceptable and a normal part of a man's life?

If your MAN is viewing porn, do you know about it?
Yes. Yes.
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How do you know about it?
He tells me. He doesn't bother to hide it.

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Did you find out about it on your own or did he tell you?

Do you view porn yourself?
Yes.
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Do you view porn together?
Yes.
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Are you threatened by his use of porn? Is your sex life suffering or is it normal?
It is "normal" for us BECAUSE we are not threatened by it. Our sex life is probably not normal. It is probably abnormally active and varied, if what we see here is any indication. Porn plays a TEENY part in that.
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