Originally Posted by hubby
I don't think it is about watching someone different, at least not most of the time. I think it is about watching two (or more) people enjoy the act of sex.
I will tell you that if my wife would let us film each other I would watch that 100X more times than other porn. I would find it INCREDIBLY HOT and I can watch it and do my thing whenever I want so I don't have to bother my wife all the time with my hormone laden body. Now if she is up for a romp, then I will put down the computer and go play.
I think you are not the norm though. I think most guys feel as I stated. and THAT is what women have a problem with.