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swedish · 11-07-2008, 11:43 AM

Thanks for the additional info, it does help when responding. It almost sounds like you are in a rut...do you ever go on dates? It definitely seems like he is unhappy whether it's stress from work or whatever he seems to be in his own world right now...maybe instead of focusing on what you are missing right now (which I can see is a lot if you are not feeling connected to him and loved) take some action to step away from that and make his favorite dinner or something you've never tried...give him a massage one night...plan a date...see if you can get him to have a little fun and maybe that will get him out of the rut enough to return some affection.

11-07-2008, 11:43 AM	#7 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 3,293	Re: In a mess Thanks for the additional info, it does help when responding. It almost sounds like you are in a rut...do you ever go on dates? It definitely seems like he is unhappy whether it's stress from work or whatever he seems to be in his own world right now...maybe instead of focusing on what you are missing right now (which I can see is a lot if you are not feeling connected to him and loved) take some action to step away from that and make his favorite dinner or something you've never tried...give him a massage one night...plan a date...see if you can get him to have a little fun and maybe that will get him out of the rut enough to return some affection.