Originally Posted by Shianne
I can't tell who in my marriage is the BPD... what if we both are?? How toxic could that be. I am the enabler but I swear some of those traits fit me.
Shianne, keep in mind that everybody occasionally exhibits all nine BPD traits. They become a serious problem when you have most of them at such a strong level that they undermine your personal relationships. I am glad to hear that you found the information useful. For good articles by professionals, please take a look at those at T1 How a Borderline Personality Disorder Love Relationship Evolves
. I especially like Article 9 at that site.