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Old 02-10-2011, 06:21 AM   #1 (permalink)
anonimouse
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Default The cheater

I was the cheater... Did it once but didn't tell my now husband for years. It happened with his now ex bestfriend.
He now knows (has known for a couple of years now) and while he seems to be dealing with it for the most part, although there is resentment and it has come up in arguments once or twice.. I can't seem to forgive myself for it! Most people would say that's my punishment and I don't deserve to feel ok but it does affect our marriage. How do people start "forgiving" themselves and start moving on? I feel guilty that I was the one who broke up what was an awesome friendship with them and I just hate knowing that I hurt the person I love the most.
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