| | Re: not sure what to do
This is certainly not a good start to a marriage. Have you had enough time to get to know your wife better before marriage? I suggest you let her know how her behaviour is a problem for you now, and you are concerned it will become worse when you start living together.
Are there more surprizes to come from her when you start living together? Something to keep in mind. If her controlling behaviour and distrust continues, it wont' be too long before you become a doormat in order to please her every wish. The worst thing you can allow to happen in a marriage is to stop being the man you are and become a wuss.
No woman wants a wuss. Even though they are the ones that usually drive some of us into becoming one; me included.