My heart goes out to all the wives and husbands on TAM, who have bad sex lives. It is awful not to be able to enjoy lovemaking with your spouse, for whatever reason.
I wanted to start a HAPPY sex life thread, so that those of us who enjoy our partners could share the positive energy.
My husband and I have been together almost four years. We married in October 2010. Our sex life has always been deliciously satisfying. We enjoy different positions, oral sex, lingerie and frequent affection outside of the bedroom.
I have experienced certain bedroom activities only with my husband. He never
pressured me, like a horrible ex did. I simply felt comfortable with hubby. Being sexually abused as a child made a certain act unbearable for me in the past. Mr.G was able to help me to enjoy it now, with gentleness and patience. Every time I think of that, my heart swells.
Cynics love to tell me that it's only because we are newlyweds. We were like this for the whole time we have been together, including while we cohabited during our 2 year engagement. We simply make sex a huge priority. It helps that we have a lot in common that way. If our sex life was not good, I would not have married him.
C'mon, I'm sure not ALL the marriages on TAM are sexless and boring.