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southbound · 02-13-2011, 08:26 AM

One of my x wife's most frequent excuses for not wanting sex was that she was tired. I will admit, she did have a physically draining job, but she always seemed to have energy for everything else.

If her family dropped by and wanted to play volleyball or something, she had energy. She always had energy for holiday and family activities. She always had energy for special things like helping to plan a wedding or baby shower, but she always used being tired as an excuse for not wanting sex.

Not to be funny, but sex wouldn't take nearly as long as volleyball or some other activity. I never required any special energy for sex. Even if i was too exhausted to do other things, I could always find enough energy for sex. I've even been sick before, yet could have had sex had my wife been willing.

So, does sex require a special kind of energy for women, or is it just an excuse?

02-13-2011, 08:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
southbound Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 1,424	Does sex require a different energy for women? One of my x wife's most frequent excuses for not wanting sex was that she was tired. I will admit, she did have a physically draining job, but she always seemed to have energy for everything else. If her family dropped by and wanted to play volleyball or something, she had energy. She always had energy for holiday and family activities. She always had energy for special things like helping to plan a wedding or baby shower, but she always used being tired as an excuse for not wanting sex. Not to be funny, but sex wouldn't take nearly as long as volleyball or some other activity. I never required any special energy for sex. Even if i was too exhausted to do other things, I could always find enough energy for sex. I've even been sick before, yet could have had sex had my wife been willing. So, does sex require a special kind of energy for women, or is it just an excuse?