| | Re: Question regarding sex after divorce (question geared towards men)
Look at it from his perspective: he's getting sex and even a child possibly, without having to be married or otherwise committed to you.
If you want MARRIAGE, then stop what you are doing and insist on going back to counseling together. Goodness, he does not have to marry you if you get pregnant. He could also be having sex with other women and you could get an STD. Take better care of yourself! Use condoms at the VERY least, b/c bcpills won't give you any protection from STDs.
He has the best of both worlds. He's really taking advantage of you, IMHO. What on earth is there to love or respect about someone who will treat you so badly? Please consider counseling to work on your self esteem b/c you are LETTING him use you on his own terms.