lostcherub

I know my hubby is okay with me telling my sisters he in fact wanted to tell them at the beginning so they could give me the support I needed so i have no worries on how he will take it. He has been honest with the fact that he may have to take some reprisals from them and had said all along that he would deal with it if I felt the need to tell them. And you are righ it does mean a lot that he is more concerned with me getting through it rather than what he may have to deal with.

I think that is a good point about asking my sisters not to say anything but also, to a point, let them know what is going on positively between us.

I do worry about him having to deal with not only me but family aswell now draconis but I will have to hope that by all wanting the best for me and my 3 children that it can be worked out all round.

My hubby did say that he would change how he was with other females and how he thinks and I have to admit I am sceptical on that point, can people really change, but reading your point about your husband changing his boundaries it is not so much about leopards changing their spots but about reassigning certain points in their own life so perhaps, positively thinking, it will work for my husband as it has for yours swedish?