| | Re: Question regarding sex after divorce (question geared towards men)
Witty... COULD I have sex with my soon-to-be ex with no feelings? Yes, I think I could. WOULD I have sex with her? No, I wouldn't. Because I do care about her as a person and don't want to send a very wrong signal that leads her to believe things are fixable or improving.
But I could easily see that someone wouldn't care about sending that signal, or wouldn't think about that impact. Not that I'm a better person or anything, but I could see that happening.
Personally, I think you're better off cutting off the intimacy until you're reconciled. The ONLY reason I can think of for doing that is if one of the primary complaints with the break up was that the level of physical intimacy wasn't enough, and you wanted to show him that you had changed. Other than that, the more things you demonstrate he'll be giving up by separating/divorcing, the better off you'll be.