Re: For Thewife
Chances are he meant to slight you but not hurt you in the way he did. It is often used as a trick to demean someone so that they feel upset and do more to prove the other person wrong. Therefore they get their way twice both in what they wanted and control.
I hope by early next week I have a Role Thesis up because I talk about these various things.
A stay at home parent deserves no less than four hours that they can go out by themselves each week, without the kids period.
Additionally I would have fired back if I am a bad mother for only taking care of the kids 164 hours a week what does that make you as a father?
Second in the thesis if he is working 40-60 hours a week he should be spending 14 hours a week quality time with his kids period.
It the mother in law is not bringing in an income, doesn't do any of the house work, and isn't disabled than she is a leech.
You have a right to be upset. He was wrong and the nerve of him to use such a thing.
Men ....Grrr....
draconis
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