 Re: sweet, or being manipulated?
But everytime I'm direct and answer in short sentences he tells me I'm rude for being indifferent.
I respond with "we are seperated, living seperate lives. You went and got your own bank account, own PO Box. Why do I have to give you anything more than that?" and he was just relentless on this. It was back and forth texts, and then he just showed up at the house (he had our son overnight, and was bringing him home).
Which, by the way, he hardly takes all three kids at once. I asked him to take them Friday night so I could go out to the movies with some girlfriends, plus, my daughters miss him (he spends a lot of time with my son due to hockey). He said if we have a night off, we should be going on a date. I said I didn't want that. He said that we should do something as a family, and I said no to that too. So, he wouldn't watch the kids.
Again, controlling.
I know all of this when I write it down...again, ugh.
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