draconis

First it comes to honestly communicating with your husband. I haven't seen you post something saying you did and reached an agreement.

Second it is about co-parenting and not one person trumping the other because "they feel justified".

Third I brought up what you had said in your post she was saving her money-meaning she wasn't there yet. He wanted her to show responcibility which she had not.

I would feel hurt if I wanted a condition to be met for my child to get something and my wife just did it knowing how I felt.

Last you say he goes through the silent stage, how often do you do this?

Unless I am missing something here?

draconis