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Originally Posted by evenow
I do understand what you mean by glorified friends. It does feel that DH and I are best friends--but for me it's little more than that. It really doesn't seem to be changing.
But I don't feel that this would be a good reason to end a marriage. It's true that I am scared but I wouldn't be able to justify leaving a relationship where there isn't anything wrong.
I've never been in love. I don't know that I'm missing anything. Why on earth should I go take a chance on something that might not exist for me? Especially since I seem to be the only one that's unhappy here.
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I have known through friends and family the love you are looking for growing out of the relationship you talk about. Maybe you just don't have those butterflies but then again for the most part many people let them fade.
It is why I try EVERDAY to do something for my wife. It helps to keep my feelings for her and I can see how she respondes back to me.
draconis