MisterNiceGuy

Breaking update... I went to make a couple of deliveries this afternoon and came back and my wife was on the phone. Her face just sunk when she saw me. Not expecting me back so soon. She said, gotta go and could hear a deep voice on the other end say bye. Then she looks at me and tells me that was her best friend (a woman) on the phone... I'm fuming because I know it's him! I have to go do a couple of things and come back and I can't keep it in any longer and say that wasn't your friend on the phone it was the OM. She said yes... immediately she says she needs to move out, but she starts to back peddle. I say it's me or him. She says she's confused. (I just wrote her a long letter last night telling how I feel and she really liked it) I said I'm tired of pouring my guts out (in that letter) just to have her walk all over them. I don't need these distractions if we are to get this marriage back on track. She said she didn't need them either. I said we are going to take care of this later (I have some business to attend to) and she said she was going to take care of it. I look at her and she looks pissed. She says that my response was perfect and appreciated. She hears me... I left it at that and now I'm going for a run to blow off some steam...

I think it's exactly what I thought it was. She's trying to avail her self of this guy, but I don't think she can see how to do it right. Talking more to him isn't going to get her where she needs to be if she really wants to end it.

I found all her emails, she had hidden them in folder, but she forgets how tech savvy I am sometimes. There is not a hint of romance in her emails, but his are always hinting at something. I think she truly wants to end it but is having a difficult time. I need to contact him and tell him no more and she and I have to have some type of agreement that she will not contact him anymore. I think the therapist session will be a great place to hash that out so I don't blow a gasket over this...