Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Sometimes it feels like a terrible mistake

draconis · 11-14-2007, 01:38 AM

There are two kinds of spark.

Instant attraction that can fade with time anyways.

Pure happiness with a partner.

When I first met my wife I wasn't looking for a wife at all but the more I got to really know her the more I wanted. She amazes me today still. We have that spark because we share and love and communicate. We act as a team and make each moment count.

What you have isn't a bad situation. Think of all the people that have it worse then you, that have problems with cheating or a partner that treats them badly or have addiction problems.

Is it that you just want more or are you truely unhappy?

draconis

11-14-2007, 01:38 AM	#10 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,347	Re: Sometimes it feels like a terrible mistake There are two kinds of spark. Instant attraction that can fade with time anyways. Pure happiness with a partner. When I first met my wife I wasn't looking for a wife at all but the more I got to really know her the more I wanted. She amazes me today still. We have that spark because we share and love and communicate. We act as a team and make each moment count. What you have isn't a bad situation. Think of all the people that have it worse then you, that have problems with cheating or a partner that treats them badly or have addiction problems. Is it that you just want more or are you truely unhappy? draconis