Originally Posted by Shoto1984
Couldn't agree with 827Aug more. "an unnecessary temptation to marriage". I think a marriage is best served when there are no secrets, except maybe what you got each other for Valentines Day. Its not about being pushy or intrusive its about what brings you closer or pushes you apart. In my experience seperate accounts in email or FB etc only leads to trouble. In my case my wife got into a lot of trouble with her FB accont and it nearly ended our marriage. It seems a FB account is a great becon for old romantic partners to establish new contact....
Agree completely!!!! FB may not create the urge within a person to stray but it sure as hell creates an unnecessary temptation and more frustration and heart ache than need be!! And yes you can become his friend but it won't stop him from "chatting" or "private messaging" which you can't see as just a friend. Go with your gut feelings! Only you know your husband best...what does it feel like to you?!?!?!?