draconis,
yes I also think that he didnt mean to hurt me in the way i was hurt.
The problem with our childcare arrangements and roles are that he works out of town and only comes home fortnightly.
From next week we will be staying together and he had promised to help me more with the kids and household........i must also find out how much can i ask him to help, i dont want him to over work himself because he has a full time project based job which can be very stressful at times.
My mil doesnt work or bring any money home, she lives in her house a few min away so she comes in as and when she wants. Lately, i dont entertain her so much so she had cut down on her visits, she now comes in only when i need her to baby sit. I m better off seeing her less times a month or week.
The problem with men is they dont talk much (not all), then how on earth are we supposed to understand them
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