Originally Posted by Conrad

Depends on what you want.

You have to feel very hurt and betrayed by this.

What's necessary is to put a stop to this right now.

This phone call will do it.

You can then gauge your wife's reaction. If additional steps are necessary, you can take them at that time.

However, after you call her. I'd call him. You can then have that conversation MEM outlined. And don't tell him you've spoken to his wife.