| | Re: Is cheating ever a good idea?
No it's never a good idea. Divorce sounds like a good idea in this situation. If you don't believe me, head over to the infidelity forum to see how much EXTRA problems cheating causes. Cheating also means you only get a half life, as it's hidden. I think this marriage is over. break up in the most responsible and ADULT way you can. Look after your kid. Then once you're stable again, you can have sex / flings / dating with whomever you want. Do it the honourable way. This is clearly over, get out now. THEN sleep with other people. The other way around will cause many more problems you don't need.