Originally Posted by IanIronwood
Just caught up with the posts. You might want to sneak back into her mail account one last time and have any future emails from him or to him get automatically forwarded to a dummy account that you can check from time to time.
And if you really want to pee in her cornflakes, then have all his future emails go directly to trash.
Good luck, man. Don't back down. If she loves you, she needs to fight for you. If she doesn't love you . . . make it hurt.
Oh, and in my part of the world the next time he contacts her, he would get a righteous @$$ kicking. But I live in the civilized South. Your mileage and local customs may vary.