Originally Posted by MisterNiceGuy

We've always been open about each other's email account. She is always reading my emails, right up until I dropped the bomb yesterday. About 20 minutes before I dropped the bomb she was texting me in a very friendly manner... I just don't get it...

The fact that we've always been open about emails and the fact that she has been reading and answering emails from my account for years tells me she has no leg to stand on with this issue.

I made copies of a few pages of her journal. The ones where she professes her deep affection of the OM. I have them stored away safely in case I need to use them. I have been a devoted, if distant husband. I was a Mr. Nice Guy smothering her though, I know that know but that is not the basis for anything in a divorce court. Right away she told me we need to break up the business and house right away so she could get some cash to move out, but then quickly backpedaled to say that we will just sleep in separate beds and maintain a pleasant atmosphere around the kids..