Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Sometimes it feels like a terrible mistake

draconis · 11-15-2007, 01:59 AM

Sometimes more is all in the cards. When you are in any long term relationship mundane life comes in. You can still make the sparks fly by adding to it. I think your problem was you never had the sparks with him, so you do not know how to build that fire or keep it going.

You compared it to a teddy bear. Nice. Why do some adults like teddy bears because they are cute or reminds them of happy childhood or the safety of a friend. But when you are a kid a teddy bear is loved and cherished.

Think of that and try to adjust to this loving and caring man. He is your teddy bear, but it can mean so much more then just a good thing. You seem to have some wall up keeping you from enjoying what you have. Some thing in the back of your mind that says what if. As if you are afraid of being hurt, maybe because you have been in the past.

draconis

11-15-2007, 01:59 AM	#12 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,347	Re: Sometimes it feels like a terrible mistake Sometimes more is all in the cards. When you are in any long term relationship mundane life comes in. You can still make the sparks fly by adding to it. I think your problem was you never had the sparks with him, so you do not know how to build that fire or keep it going. You compared it to a teddy bear. Nice. Why do some adults like teddy bears because they are cute or reminds them of happy childhood or the safety of a friend. But when you are a kid a teddy bear is loved and cherished. Think of that and try to adjust to this loving and caring man. He is your teddy bear, but it can mean so much more then just a good thing. You seem to have some wall up keeping you from enjoying what you have. Some thing in the back of your mind that says what if. As if you are afraid of being hurt, maybe because you have been in the past. draconis