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Originally Posted by Gwen
I really worry that once we get married he will stop making an effort and these things will get worst.
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He probably will get complacent, and really if you marry him knowing he is like this, then really you dont have much to say.
Something Drac suggests on here is to write up an agreement that he and you sign. So you could postpone the wedding, write down the things you both need to work on, and if he wont sign it, or he doesnt follow through with it, then you have your answer.
for example my H had to agree to go to counseling and do boundary books with me or i leave.