Re: College girlfriend has social anxiety, and I might dump her because of it...
First she isn't an object to show off. If that is what you want from a girlfriend ten you must make a lousy boyfriend.
Second, maybe you can help her by getting her in a debate class, inspirational speaking, current events
Growing is a part of relationships.
Maybe her issue is more than just social, many people have high functioning autisms that while they are super intelligent they have social interaction issues. Chances are she doesn't have autism per se but maybe something else like it, we are not all wired the same way.
Maybe something in her childhood caused her to be withdrawn, moving around, specially army brats have this. Maybe you are just to controling of her for her to feel comfortable having he own friends or having a girls night out to let down her hair so to speak.
I'll wait for you to respond.
draconis
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