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justean · 11-16-2008, 08:12 AM

it sounds like you just dont have the chemistry . if you sincerely love her, you wil stay and take steps together to help her. but its not all about her either. you are the other part in the relationship.
your needs have to be full filled also.
sometimes its not funny being in a sad relationship, but i dont think you can stay because she cries.
if you do move on, i think the best way is go quickly . dont linger or keep contact.
thats why its called moving on.
my previous boyfriends and when we split up, the candle had burnt out. her personality is like that for the rest of her life.
i didnt go out with blokes that smoked, why? because they smoked.
so what im saying is, you dont have to stay with someone because they suffer with severe anxiety . you dont have to feel sorry for your actions all the time.

11-16-2008, 08:12 AM	#5 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 1,277	Re: College girlfriend has social anxiety, and I might dump her because of it... it sounds like you just dont have the chemistry . if you sincerely love her, you wil stay and take steps together to help her. but its not all about her either. you are the other part in the relationship. your needs have to be full filled also. sometimes its not funny being in a sad relationship, but i dont think you can stay because she cries. if you do move on, i think the best way is go quickly . dont linger or keep contact. thats why its called moving on. my previous boyfriends and when we split up, the candle had burnt out. her personality is like that for the rest of her life. i didnt go out with blokes that smoked, why? because they smoked. so what im saying is, you dont have to stay with someone because they suffer with severe anxiety . you dont have to feel sorry for your actions all the time.