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Old 11-16-2008, 08:51 AM   #12 (permalink)
justean
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Default Re: Getting married in 2 months, but feel very confused!

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Originally Posted by dcrim View Post
POSTPONE the wedding (for at least a year). Do it now, before people start to show up.

Then tell your fiancee that he needs to grow before you will marry him.

That means (insert your list here, make it thorough)...

And that you do NOT want a renter (who happens to be his friend and will likely cause him to revert to his "single" attitude).

my thoughts take the place back for yourself. to see what you really want. he cant call you a sponger then.
but in your life as you know and with this man, you wil always have some issues. he or you wil have childish moments. being stupid with friends, we all do it.
you just have to look at if you can put up with this man for the rest of your life.
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