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LVS · 02-27-2011, 02:01 PM

Thursday I spoke to sister T the psychotherapist form my parish.
She helped me to feel more comfortable about myself and my decision and gave me her blessing to move on with my life lol
She said let's do the exercise to find out from where is coming the guilt that you are feeling.
She said the shame or guilt is not coming from you not coming from the time you were in the womb but it is coming from your culture.

She said also that she is going to try to find for me a group support.

I told her about my S12's condition and she said she doesn't work with kids but she can talk to him and see what she can do. She gave me 2 appointments for me on Sunday 6th March and one for my son tomorrow Monday 28th Feb at 4 pm.

By the way, I was going to take my son to celebrate his birthday with his friends on Tuesday the day before his actual birthday since i have work on Wednesday and his dad already told me thast he is going to leave to unknown destination by the end of February lol
Two days ago my son told me that his dad is taking him with his friends on Wednesday.
I said but i am taking you on Tuesday my son said no it is ok mom Wednesday is my actual birthday and my dad is able to take me. so i didn't say anything. Of course i am going to celebrate his birthday in my way but i am tired from the ups and downs.

Yesterday also my son said that on Monday morning (during school time) his dad is taking him to see his psychiatrist.
My S12 was asked to write a paper about everything disturbing him
I told him to make two copies from this paper one for the psychiatrist and one for the T.

Wow two appointments at the same day!!
I think to send his dad a text message and let him know that he doesn't have to take him at school time because i am taking him on the afternoon. what do you think? Or you do have another suggestion!

02-27-2011, 02:01 PM	#711 (permalink)
LVS Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: California Posts: 680	Re: 28 years of marriage What ca i do? Thursday I spoke to sister T the psychotherapist form my parish. She helped me to feel more comfortable about myself and my decision and gave me her blessing to move on with my life lol She said let's do the exercise to find out from where is coming the guilt that you are feeling. She said the shame or guilt is not coming from you not coming from the time you were in the womb but it is coming from your culture. She said also that she is going to try to find for me a group support. I told her about my S12's condition and she said she doesn't work with kids but she can talk to him and see what she can do. She gave me 2 appointments for me on Sunday 6th March and one for my son tomorrow Monday 28th Feb at 4 pm. By the way, I was going to take my son to celebrate his birthday with his friends on Tuesday the day before his actual birthday since i have work on Wednesday and his dad already told me thast he is going to leave to unknown destination by the end of February lol Two days ago my son told me that his dad is taking him with his friends on Wednesday. I said but i am taking you on Tuesday my son said no it is ok mom Wednesday is my actual birthday and my dad is able to take me. so i didn't say anything. Of course i am going to celebrate his birthday in my way but i am tired from the ups and downs. Yesterday also my son said that on Monday morning (during school time) his dad is taking him to see his psychiatrist. My S12 was asked to write a paper about everything disturbing him I told him to make two copies from this paper one for the psychiatrist and one for the T. Wow two appointments at the same day!! I think to send his dad a text message and let him know that he doesn't have to take him at school time because i am taking him on the afternoon. what do you think? Or you do have another suggestion! __________________ Le Vieux Sage Last edited by LVS; 02-27-2011 at 06:27 PM.