Originally Posted by turnera
You can have Sadie tell her that no one will accept the OM in their presence. If she doesn't listen to Sadie, then you will expose the affair to her family and other friends. And to the OM's family. Make it uncomfortable for them to continue.
Is your wife a SAHM? If so, cut off financial access to this OM.
What is a 'SAHM'?
The OM is a) unattached and estranged from his family b) across the country (she actually hasn't laid eyes on him in 25 years) c) a REAL piece of work (multiple marriages, drug and alcohol addiction that my wife supposedly 'helped him through'...'saving his life'... blah, blah, blech. He's supposedly wanted on bigamy charges in Virginia. (Yes, I've emailed the U.S. Marshall's office with all the info I have on him).
It's an addiction; that's all it can be. We just need to break that and rebuild... or restart... our marriage.