draconis

Here is my point of view on the matter.

First the kids should have come first, period. However he should have also considered you too.

I agree that if you are not considered half owner that you should not have to pay period. When my wife and I where first together I owned a house prior to meeting her. She never once made a payment on it, put in to the heating or repairs. She did pay for internet and phone however.

I think you are justified in so far as to be a co-signer IF he wants to build a life together with you. If for credit reasons you can not be then having you on an insurance policy would be nice.



draconis