Re: Am I over reacting?
Yes the kids should have been a part of that. But his ex-mother in law? I dont get it. It should have been stipulated that the money was to go to pay off the house, and then if I was to ever sell it, that half the proceeds go to his kids. That I can understand. The way he went about it was totally wrong and totally unfair to me. If he trusts his ex mother in law so much why doesnt he marry her instead of me? I am just really upset and not sure if our relationship can with stand this. I dont want to be with someone who is going to his ex mother in law before me. I told him I will no longer pay any part of the house payment but would pay my share of the phone, cable, electric and such but why would I want to help him build equity in something that I can not call OURS, he made it clear that it is his. He just came back with the comment that if I didnt pay part of the house payment I would have to move. I am ok with that, but he is now stuck with me until I save the money to be able to move. I have given this house my all, and over 3/4's of my pay a month, well I feel I need to now save money so I have a cushion to fall back on if this doesnt work out. He doesnt understand that so what can I do?
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