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paramore · 03-03-2011, 08:43 AM

ok well hubby dropped son off this morning, he got called into work, he hadn't realized I had moved the counseling apt from today to last monday, the day after he left. He asked what time it was, and that he could probably be off work in time. So luckily I was able to get one today with the same counseler, says as long as he's off he'll go.

I am afraid to put any hope in this. I am praying the counsler pulls his head out. Of course he's still talking to her. We hugged, and I said I love you, he said it back. I am not sure if he's just going to make me happy, thinking he's willing to work on the marriage, or if he's curious or what. I guess it shows he is not completely throwing the idea of our marriage down the toilet. I am thinking now....ok, we do this apt, and keep going while still talking to her, we are may as well put our money in a pile in the yard and torch it. I hope the counsler tells him he needs to stop, maybe hearing it from someone other than me or friends and family will bear some weight.

At the very least, it will make him realize he needs to start IC. We can work on ourselves, then us. I am on the fence about being hopeful, lol.

03-03-2011, 08:43 AM	#1 (permalink)
paramore Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: usa Posts: 1,089	afraid to falsley hope ok well hubby dropped son off this morning, he got called into work, he hadn't realized I had moved the counseling apt from today to last monday, the day after he left. He asked what time it was, and that he could probably be off work in time. So luckily I was able to get one today with the same counseler, says as long as he's off he'll go. I am afraid to put any hope in this. I am praying the counsler pulls his head out. Of course he's still talking to her. We hugged, and I said I love you, he said it back. I am not sure if he's just going to make me happy, thinking he's willing to work on the marriage, or if he's curious or what. I guess it shows he is not completely throwing the idea of our marriage down the toilet. I am thinking now....ok, we do this apt, and keep going while still talking to her, we are may as well put our money in a pile in the yard and torch it. I hope the counsler tells him he needs to stop, maybe hearing it from someone other than me or friends and family will bear some weight. At the very least, it will make him realize he needs to start IC. We can work on ourselves, then us. I am on the fence about being hopeful, lol.