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Rob774 · 03-04-2011, 09:34 AM

Good points listed by all on here. Trust... but verify. Don't be a fool, have you ever personally met this guy? I'd have a really big probleml for my wife to go meet some guy repeated times, and i haven't even met him. I'm a stickler to patterns, and i don't like change much. So for my wife to start "hanging out" with a old guy friend would really set off alarms within me. My wife has an old bud that she knew prior to me. I met him, he seems cool, but he's been out of the picture for almost a decade since we've moved so much. IF... he were to reshow, i ofcourse would understand her keeping in touch and perhaps going out to hang... just not all the time. I'm sorry i don't think that **** is healthy in a marriage. I don't routinely hang out with other women, i don't expect my wife to do the same. YOu have to errect proper boundaries in a marriage. To me doing this violating said boundaries.

I have female friends, who are married, but despite this, some are imcomplete. They are just a compliment and drink away from an affair. I don't need some guy friend on my wife's hip to be a IN CASE OF EMERGENCY... BREAK GLASS to get this penis. I'm sorry, but this how EA's start. Be kind, watch your words, but you've got away to limit these meetings or else be a active participant in them.

03-04-2011, 09:34 AM	#13 (permalink)
Rob774 Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Illy Philly Posts: 677	Re: Feeling anxious and jealous of my wifes male friend Good points listed by all on here. Trust... but verify. Don't be a fool, have you ever personally met this guy? I'd have a really big probleml for my wife to go meet some guy repeated times, and i haven't even met him. I'm a stickler to patterns, and i don't like change much. So for my wife to start "hanging out" with a old guy friend would really set off alarms within me. My wife has an old bud that she knew prior to me. I met him, he seems cool, but he's been out of the picture for almost a decade since we've moved so much. IF... he were to reshow, i ofcourse would understand her keeping in touch and perhaps going out to hang... just not all the time. I'm sorry i don't think that **** is healthy in a marriage. I don't routinely hang out with other women, i don't expect my wife to do the same. YOu have to errect proper boundaries in a marriage. To me doing this violating said boundaries. I have female friends, who are married, but despite this, some are imcomplete. They are just a compliment and drink away from an affair. I don't need some guy friend on my wife's hip to be a IN CASE OF EMERGENCY... BREAK GLASS to get this penis. I'm sorry, but this how EA's start. Be kind, watch your words, but you've got away to limit these meetings or else be a active participant in them.