| | Re: Feeling anxious and jealous of my wifes male friend
I feel like you can trust your wife, but not necessarily the other guy. You should tell her that she's not the issue and that your only concern is the male friend. Then tell her that you're really trying to see it her way, and that you'd like to go out to dinner with both of them
This way you can observe their body language as well as being in control of the situation, something your wife might respect/be attracted to. The best avenue is to be firm and fair about your feelings.