Re: what to do?
I have observed many times that woman when they get into a relationship..see love in a totally different way from what men do...they become totally dedicated to this one person and start changing there habits,life,likes,dislikes to match the man's taste...and all this is done without any regret as you are so in love...
But as soon as the relationship turns sour, woman first become upset, sulk and then feel pitty for themselves as to whgy they changed so much for this one man...When the cosolation period is over, woman become strong and are not really affected by any good things too done by that same man...
So your situation is in that state now...you did love your husband at one time but after the turmoil...it is becoming difficult for you to trust thi man..
What I can suggest is...just forget the past...forget everything he said or did to you, and start with a fresh mind, thinking that this is a new man you are dating or marrying, you have met him for the first time in your life...
do this with all your heart and then see what happens...see if the relationship becomes better than before or you are still unhappy...
Then it would be good to part ways...becoz ur husband too will not be appy if you are no more happy with him....
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