Originally Posted by AmImad
No, I am not, I didn't beg him to talk to me or beg him to come home, he was the one sending me texts he was the one that called me when he was drunk, I have stood my ground, I have told him what I want/need, I haven't given in and told him how 'I' am, which is what is making him angry, he seems to think he can live away and I will still inform him of everything that is going on with me and I have told him didly squat! I've spoken to him about the children only when it was important, I've arranged for him to call at a certain time to speak to them.
You sent him a picture of you.
You answered the phone when it wasn't about the children.
You allowed him to say horrible things to you.
You allowed him to get away with the withheld number trick. You cried on the phone, which showed him you're still invested.
You asked about his happiness.
Those things are not a part of NC.
You can see the reaction his loss of control has garnered. He's going crazy because you're not succumbing to his every wish. You'll get even better results after actually