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Saffron · 03-07-2011, 09:39 PM

So sorry you're having to go through this and obviously you're not alone.

I really hope your wife is being truthful about there being no PA, but be vigilant. When my husband got caught, he tried to say it was only an EA. Looked me straight in the eye and said they never kissed. Wasn't until I said I could get his texts (bluff) that he felt cornered and confessed the PA portion of the affair.

Regardless, depending on her remorse and behavior, I hope you think twice about your conviction that it'd be over if it was more than emotional. My husband was sure I'd leave him if I found out his affair was also physical. Now that I know the truth and am willing to try, he says he's never felt more loved by anyone. He never realized how much I love him and regrets that it took hurting me to finally believe it.

Good luck and I'm hoping for the best!

03-07-2011, 09:39 PM	#13 (permalink)
Saffron Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 438	Re: My Wife's Emotional Affair... My Battle Strategy So sorry you're having to go through this and obviously you're not alone. I really hope your wife is being truthful about there being no PA, but be vigilant. When my husband got caught, he tried to say it was only an EA. Looked me straight in the eye and said they never kissed. Wasn't until I said I could get his texts (bluff) that he felt cornered and confessed the PA portion of the affair. Regardless, depending on her remorse and behavior, I hope you think twice about your conviction that it'd be over if it was more than emotional. My husband was sure I'd leave him if I found out his affair was also physical. Now that I know the truth and am willing to try, he says he's never felt more loved by anyone. He never realized how much I love him and regrets that it took hurting me to finally believe it. Good luck and I'm hoping for the best!