draconis

While you have a point that the longer you are with someone the more you will learn is true, the key to learning and understanding people lies in communications with the person.

When I was first with my wife I asked things of her on a regular basis. Sunday comes around ask about what church they go to. What a movie that that talks about sex ask about how they feel about it.

Check out where they live too, see how clean they are. Offer to cook them a meal at your house them ask them to do the same for you.

Offer to do laundry with them and see how much they really know.

Another thing about sex is how you communicate it. When I was first sexual with my wife I asked her to take my hand and show me where and how she liked it. Thank God for that too, because I would have messed up so much bumbling on my own thinking I knew everything.

Talk about where your priorities are and ask them too.

Watch to see how they treat others like a clerk or waitress. If they have a short temper it comes out directed away from you at first but you know one day it might be directed towards you.

Hope this helps some.

draconis