how do we move forward
Hello all,
Just looking for some thoughts on my current situation. Will try to make it short......have been married to my husband for 4 years, just celebrated the 4th year together. He suffers from depression, which affects his sex drive, of course I knew all of this when we met and got married. I have issues with intimacy, showing my feelings to him, letting him know that I need him.
we have seen a therapist for both issues and it seemed to work for awhile, then we fell back into a rut. I have been the one in the past to say I wasn't happy, I wanted out, we always seem to work it out. Well, two weeks ago my husband came to me and said he wanted to leave. I was shocked, just blown away. He said he wanted to leave because he felt that I didn't love him and he had been lonley. He had come this decision of leaving me about a month ago. What he hadn't expected was that I would tell him that I indeed did love him and did want him in my life. after hearing this from me, he made the decision to stay and see if we could work things out.
he has gotten on new meds, his sex drive is way up (he is new man I swear!) my question is how do I move forward without thinking that anytime I do something wrong he is going to leave me?
I have been crying non stop, taking herbal anxiety meds and just bascially feeling sick to my stomach.....if anyone could offer me advice I sure would appreciate it......
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