Originally Posted by lillylove

hello there...
My husband and i are currently going through problems right now and i am the one needing constant reassurance.....I want to know that he isn't going to leave me, that he still loves me. he too has agreed to seeing our therapist, that is a good sign right?

This whole things sucks as I am usally the strong one, not really needing him (well at least not voicing it) very confident and self assured, i was blown away when two weeks ago my husband told me he wanted to leave me.....due to the fact that he felt i didn't love him and he felt lonely.

He didn't ask me to change, i did from that night on, it is the hardest thing in the world though to open up myself knowing that he stil might leave me.......

i feel your pain......