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Forsaken · 03-09-2011, 02:58 PM

What would you say and/or do in this situation?

As I have posted before my wife had texted multiple people, one of which was her co-worker. I told her I wasn't comfortable with her working at her last job at a restaurant as a "bartender" because I didn't want her being around the co-worker she had texted with. I told her that I didn't see our marriage working out if she continued to work there. So she quit that job and her last day was like 2 weeks ago or so.

Well today she sends me a text while I'm at work saying that she went to her old work to eat lunch and said she thought she had seen my platoon sergeant there. My first thought is WTF are you doing there? I mean I had explained that I wasn't comfortable with her working there so what made her think I would be fine with her going in to hang out and eat lunch?! As far as I know the OM wasn't there working, but none the less, WTF?!

My platoon sergeant sent me a text saying that she was down there working for free and then said j/k. My wife then sent me a text saying that my PLT SGT said to her that he told on her, replied back with what he said to me and she said "I was eating but helping at the same time".

How the hell can she think this is acceptable? I don't know what to even say to her about it because I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall when I bring things like this up.

What would you say and/or do in this situation?

03-09-2011, 02:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
Forsaken Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 298	Need some advice... What would you say and/or do in this situation? As I have posted before my wife had texted multiple people, one of which was her co-worker. I told her I wasn't comfortable with her working at her last job at a restaurant as a "bartender" because I didn't want her being around the co-worker she had texted with. I told her that I didn't see our marriage working out if she continued to work there. So she quit that job and her last day was like 2 weeks ago or so. Well today she sends me a text while I'm at work saying that she went to her old work to eat lunch and said she thought she had seen my platoon sergeant there. My first thought is WTF are you doing there? I mean I had explained that I wasn't comfortable with her working there so what made her think I would be fine with her going in to hang out and eat lunch?! As far as I know the OM wasn't there working, but none the less, WTF?! My platoon sergeant sent me a text saying that she was down there working for free and then said j/k. My wife then sent me a text saying that my PLT SGT said to her that he told on her, replied back with what he said to me and she said "I was eating but helping at the same time". How the hell can she think this is acceptable? I don't know what to even say to her about it because I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall when I bring things like this up. What would you say and/or do in this situation?