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yme · 11-22-2007, 01:35 PM

I feel as if I have no one to talk to because I am embarassed that I would be married to a guy after he cheats. As far as what has happened over the last ten years, we had two more kids, we learned to live with eachother again and I threw it in his face when I thought it necessary that he couldn't be trusted. If he wanted to go away with his friends or go out with out me, I would question his loyalty. He is a flirt. He sometimes does it in front of me. He will tell a watitress when we are out to dinner hey baby or sweet heart. The security guard in our neighborhood will open the gates for us and he will say thank you baby. I feel disrespected when he does this and he says it is no big deal. I think he really does not know that a married man should behave that way. I really don't know what to do. How can I trust him? He disrespected me in my own house with a neighbor. He says it was innocent and that he didn't mean anything by it. I am left to wonder what would have happened if he was not caught by my so called friends husband. Now about this friend. She would dress very provocatively around my husband.
She is pregnant.
I just don't get it. I don't know what to do.

11-22-2007, 01:35 PM	#7 (permalink)
yme Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 5	Re: No one to talk to... I feel as if I have no one to talk to because I am embarassed that I would be married to a guy after he cheats. As far as what has happened over the last ten years, we had two more kids, we learned to live with eachother again and I threw it in his face when I thought it necessary that he couldn't be trusted. If he wanted to go away with his friends or go out with out me, I would question his loyalty. He is a flirt. He sometimes does it in front of me. He will tell a watitress when we are out to dinner hey baby or sweet heart. The security guard in our neighborhood will open the gates for us and he will say thank you baby. I feel disrespected when he does this and he says it is no big deal. I think he really does not know that a married man should behave that way. I really don't know what to do. How can I trust him? He disrespected me in my own house with a neighbor. He says it was innocent and that he didn't mean anything by it. I am left to wonder what would have happened if he was not caught by my so called friends husband. Now about this friend. She would dress very provocatively around my husband. She is pregnant. I just don't get it. I don't know what to do.