| | Interesting question - Would love feedback
So, I am 2 years past D day, happy and all... no worries about the past really. But As i read some of these situations, something crossed my mind...
If your spouse would have just come to and said " I think we are different, we need to get a divorce" - Do you think you would fight as hard to save your marriage? Or did the shock and awe of an affair push you into a more protective mode in regards to your marriage?
I dont know why, but I have a wierd feeling that if my wife would have asked for a divorce, I wouldnt have looked into our problems as much. I will never really know. Maybe the we start to ask ourselves "what is wrong with me?" when we get betrayed.. Maybe it is because we think " I ain't going out like that" What do you all think?
Interesting topic for discussion, i thought.
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